BUSY MOMS!

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This Blog is designed to share my experience of being a busy single mom. After my husband passed away unexpectedly almost five years ago, I had to learn a lot. Most events I had to learn the hard way. Managing my time was one of them. My husband had our kids involved in every sport possible. He grew up being very active, which was very different from me. I was not used to being on the move all the time. My job was to show up and cheer!

In the initial months following my husband’s passing, I struggled to keep track of everything that needed to be done. I would often forget about games, school events, and important appointments. This oversight led to my kids being very upset and disappointed with me, and that was the last thing I wanted in such a challenging time. I knew I had to figure something out because maintaining their spirits while managing my own grief was becoming increasingly overwhelming.

Trying to keep it all together while still working was hard, often leaving me feeling frazzled and disorganized. I realized that if I wanted to be there for my kids and ensure they felt supported, I had to get my act together. The first best practice I learned was being organized. This could look very different for everyone, depending on personal preferences and lifestyles. For me, it meant creating systems that worked for our family.

As time went by, I discovered so many ways I could get organized that would help me stay on track. I started using digital calendars to keep track of upcoming games and events. Syncing these calendars with reminders ensured that I wouldn’t forget important dates. Additionally, I created a weekly schedule that included not just my work commitments but also family time, sport practices, and even downtime for myself. The visual layout helped me prioritize tasks and allocate time more effectively.

Another strategy I adopted was meal planning, which significantly reduced the daily stress of figuring out dinner. On Sundays, I sit down and plan out meals for the week, making shopping lists to ensure I have everything I need. This simple change has made a world of difference, allowing us more quality time together instead of rushing around for last-minute meals.

Incorporating these organizational strategies into our family life has not only helped me manage my responsibilities but has also improved our household’s overall atmosphere. The kids feel more secure knowing that their events are not just on my radar but are prioritized.

Let’s get organized so we can thrive! By sharing these tips and experiences, I hope to inspire other busy parents who are navigating similar challenges. We can find balance and joy amidst the chaos, creating cherished memories with our children while also honoring our own journeys.